Category: Choosing A College

The Second Rule of Applying to College

In my previous post, I wrote about “The First Rule of Applying to College”: getting enough sleep. This rule puts a premium on finding the balance between pursuing admission to desirable colleges and maintaining one’s mental and physical health. Pushing oneself to extremes where sleep, well-being, and mental or physical… Read more

The First Rule of Applying to College

Many of the students and families I work with experience understandable anxiety about applying to college. This anxiety begins with the many important decisions that should be made during high school: choosing which colleges to apply to, completing the application process, and making a final decision about which school to… Read more

Zen and the Art of College Visits

In my experience, students and families often overthink specific aspects of the college admission process. Visiting colleges is one of these areas. Many clients believe they need a “strategy,” along with “tactics,” that define “measurable outcomes” for the perfect college visit that will help them get into their “dream school.”… Read more

Replacing Prestige

“The benefits and predictors of a good education are knowable yet virtually impossible to measure.” “Colleges can be assessed, but not ranked. Students can be evaluated, but not measured.” ― The Education Conservancy – www.educationconservancy.org (PDF: “WE ADMIT…GUIDANCE FROM THOSE WHO DO”) If prestige is an illusion when it comes… Read more

Rethinking Prestige

Rethinking Prestige Origin of “prestige”: From French prestige – “illusion, fascination, enchantment.” From Latin praestigium – “a delusion, an illusion.” In the wake of the recent admission scandal, a reporter from a newspaper asked me why this sort of thing even happens. To tell you the truth, I do not… Read more

Advice to Parents: Keeping an Eye on the Emotional Well-Being of Your Student

Applying to college can be a very stressful process. Stress, in general—but especially consistent high levels of stress—can have an impact on a student’s brain functions, emotional well-being, and physical health. However, the outward signs that your student’s health may be negatively impacted by stress are not always easy to… Read more

Visit Early and Visit Often

Of all the steps involved in applying to colleges in a thorough and thoughtful way, perhaps visiting colleges is the most important. In fact, it is never too early to visit a college. Though, it is not a race by any means either. It is not about trying to beat… Read more